That is one of the things that was really egregious is that we do not, and have not since the kids were babies, let them sleep with us. Once in a great while, we will let them fall asleep in our bed them put them in theirs, but that is a 2-3 times/year thing. Because of this, I really feel that my wife knew what she was doing.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"