I guess I should tell you that for us the "goal" is to become friends. And eventually get D, someday like the song says, someday...... H is just starting to learn that being friends with me feels different than him being friends with someone else. He says it makes him feel like we are a couple again. And he is not so comfortable with that. All I can say is maybe that is how it is supposed to feel and that is that.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
