Yup mine too. At first I stayed in my room alot. Now I just sort of act like normal. We talk about S, the house, etc...Once in a while we have some really enlightening conversation. It was really hard at the beginning, back in September after the bomb, but it has for the most part gotten easier. Still wierd but easier. Some days I cook and he acts like he can't believe I would ever do anything nice for him, other days, we plan the menu together. We do things with our S, go out to dinner, it is probably one of the most f'd up things you have ever heard of. We have even taken to texting each other from our separate bedrooms but it has taken a long time to get where we are now. Which is by no means great or even really indicative that we will remain together.
The beginning was the worst. There was a lot of nastiness and aruging, which is unusual for us, there was also a lot of silence and a lot of me crying. But then I realized that this was an opportunity for me. To figure out who I was besides a mom and wife. I like having my own space and my own bathroom LOL. I like a lot of it and miss a lot of it. I have grown in ways I never would have imagined. I have new friends and I'm really good. So I don't think we are a shining example of anything except just taking things day by day. If either of us needs space we give it. So that is it in a nutshell. There are people around here who would tell you that I am crazy and that is probably true LOL. It is just different and probably a lot more like it was when we first started dating if that makes any sense. He has his life, I have mine and whenever the two shall meet....
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
