Two WAS's- is it really meant to be or walk away?

[Loving_Life]

So, I'm starting a new thread in Surviving soon. Thank you to everyone here for posting. I'll add a link to my new thread when I start it.

Still up in the air as to what exactly is taking place on my court date in 10 days. My L just got back from vacation and today is looking at my case again. No final agreement from stbx yet either, don't know if it will be final in 10 days or drag on.

After my recent thoughts about 'friendship' it occurs to me that stbx has not been acting like a 'friend' at all to me. Every time I talk to him or even email, I'm reminded of how argumentative and selfish he is. It's very easy to set him off. I don't think he's interested in my life, he certainly doesn't care about my perspective most of the time. I think he wants to know a little bit about things that happen to me. He doesn't want to get cut off like I died or something. But he's certainly not acting like a 'friend' toward me either. Whatever.