One thing I've found lately is it is hard to stay motivated and doing the DB type principles because of what feels like no reward for it. She seems a bit happier and more relaxed and that part is good and makes me feel better but I have to admit I personally don't feel much better about our relationship. I guess it feels like mostly a one way street. I know the point is to not look for or expect to be rewarded but at times it makes the efforts seem pointless / futile.
