I didn't see that virtual 2 x 4 come out yet, so you'd better get to work taking down some of those walls you've built up before Deb gets the 2 x 4 out.
After reading some of your posts, I agree with Deb that H DOES LY! He is trying and you are going to push him away with your doubts and always looking for the negative.
But I know EXACTLY how you feel, because I feel the same way, just like my doubts in my H about his whereabouts this weekend. I think the doubts are natural and EXPECTED. But what we have to do is NOT push our H's away WITH OUR DOUBTS. This is the tricky part. We have to keep all our doubts to ourselves. Or just between us and our friends here at DB.com.
I hope I can hold all my doubts inside when H returns home tomorrow and not show any doubts through my body language either. I guess my attitude will depend on H's attitude when he returns. I hope and pray that he's lost his mean and arrogant attitude by the time he gets home and has replaced it with a loving attitude (love for me that is).
So hang in there and focus on the positive! We are here for you to vent your doubts to. Just show your H your thankfulness that you and he are making progress. Sugar always attracts more bees than salt.
