I think it is completely Tawnya's decision whether to wear her ring or not. Like she says, she's on her way to loving herself and finding out what she wants from a marriage. If she finds out that her H cannot/will not provide her the M she wants, she can decide not to want the M back.
Not to put words in your mouth Tawnya, but you sound to me like you have not made that decision yet, but you feel like you are moving that way and that's OK! It's your M!
For me, my ring has been a source of strength. I have worn it the whole time and continue to wear it. I lost it working in the yard around Thanksgiving and felt naked without it. I then thought what kind of BAD sign is this!? However, after a few agonizing days I found it back with a borrowed metal detector and it turned into a GOOD sign, hopefully representing my sitch. I also continue to wear it to show my W that I am not "shopping" around, which, right now, turns out to be important since she considers me "looking great and ready to date".
