Hey, you want to have a Divorce Party together of somekind? My D will take a year after filing also. If we EVER file... Come to think of it, maybe I dont want to D, I will lead him on and on and in the end get his pension (or he gets mine)... K
Hey, you want to have a Divorce Party together of somekind? My D will take a year after filing also. If we EVER file... Come to think of it, maybe I dont want to D, I will lead him on and on and in the end get his pension (or he gets mine)... K
I know Kalni is joking. But my former boss found out her H cheated on her, and she waited 3 YEARS until they had a child (she wanted a child) and he was fully vested in his retirement fund (she gets half). Calculating, but effective...
John, hello, how are you? Thanks for letting me borrow your thread to tease K. That story about my boss was true, though. Unfortunately she let her bad experiences with men change her. When I was working for her the only thing she had on her mind was finding a man with money to give her and her D8 security. Nevermind love...
I am glad none of us has reached that point. Jaded is something I do not want to be...
Oh, and we are getting the snow/sleet mix again today. Don't know if it is headed your way... hope not! I am ready to see green grass again.
Have not posted in a while.....just read a quote that got me thinking:
"Recovered but not healed".
I spent the weekend with D8...yesterday was a nice warm sunny day (by our standards anyway). We were walking hand in hand in the old part of the city. A year ago, I would have noticed all the families together...now I no longer do....I just enjoy the sites...including the families....without that longing feeling. I guess that is recovering. The same is true when I drop off D8...no lingering...it is what it is....although yesterday, D8 absolutelly insisted that I get out of the car....need to ask her about that. During our walk, D8 said she had a dream that her mom's side of the family were all at my parent's home. So I sadi really...what was the occasion....she could not remember. What she could remember is that her dad and his side of the family were not there. Strange.....so she says I guess I am familysick. I asked what is that? It is like homesick except with the family. I have to admit that my eyes teared up. Thank God for sunglasses. I hugged her....she looked pretty strong....which surprised me. Finally on the drive home...we played a game...what is your favourite ______? Apparently both her mom and dad are her favourite person in the world. I told her that was a great answer and I hope we stay her favourite people for a long time. She then said that she does like one person just a tiny bit more than the other.
I am healing every day.....sometimes it is easy to forget about the kids and what they are going through.
