Thanks, K. I am reading your thread every day several times a day, I just don't have a lot of wisdom/experience since you are a few steps ahead of me in this... But I am glad you came over for a visit.
BTW the reason the hockey game was significant besides the date of it, was that one of the goals I set with the DB coach was to have more fun family together times. (Like the home show last weekend) Because it is a non-threatening way for H to spend time with me and remember that we can have FUN together.
