Wanted to come over and check in on you. Stop that impatient thinking. You have your hubby in the palm of your hand right now. Its just not happening as fast as you want it. Some men are a bit slow when it comes to reading our minds and what we want. Sometimes they just need to readjust after having their own space for so long.
Just want to say cheer up. Smile. You don't want him to focus on what the problems are as yet. That seems to be what he is focusing on what is wrong with you or should I say troubling you. You probably having some down time and its good your going out and doing things. Maybe if you told him it made you feel left out in a certain way but you understand it.
Someone once mentioned, bm I think said this, its a bit like fishing. But in order to catch a fish you have to lure it, then set the hook and gently reel that fish in. Sometimes you have to let some line loose. Then reel it in again.
Keep up the great work your doing. Its working and I can see it. So don't be disappointed in anything. You just can't see how much your H does want you. Not many go around saying ILY all the time. When they leave the ILY go too. Yours is saying it all the time. WOW. Keep your eye on the positives.
