I will get out when I think it is appropriate. There's NO way I want to agree to giving her 50% of my salary, when she is working PART TIME managing her paramours law office and making 68K a year.

No way, unless my attorney tells me to. I don't think she gets to claim 50-60% of my income "because she feels that she needs it". Not when my son sleeps with me and my daughter 16 has to sleep on a pull-out sofa. NFW! If she has to sell the house, so be it. I offered her the EXACT figures that the mediator suggested; alimony AND child support. She has a college degree and can get a full time job.

I think if she thinks that she will come upon some windfall profit by going to court, she is mistaken.