Hey T2~~ I think it is okay to lick old wounds every once in a while, as long as you don't fall into a pattern of always punishing your H (or yourself, for that matter........)while you are doing it!!!
I laughed when I read this....
Quote: I know I have my puffed up "YOU'RE DISAPPOINTING ME" body language/face on again but I say, "Sure." and quickly get in my car. He has me roll the window down and kisses me and says, "Drive safe. ILY." But I didn't even look at him.
I used to do this stuff all the time to my H. It was like I had an idea of how he should behave and if he didn't live up to it, I got upset, but couldn't really explain why...I guess my point is...watch the high expectations....they always got me into so much trouble!!!
You are doing a great job, T2!!!!!!!!!!
Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)
