I spent the majority of the evening last night cleaning and organizing. I've got a LOT to do still to make our apartment look magazine worthy but I feel better already.
Organizing and getting rid of clutter not only makes me feel better, but has the added benefit of being a bit of a 180 for me. I'm not a mess, but I am definitely moe relaxed about "stuff" than my H. One of my goals is to do a major overhaul of our apartment so that it's very clean and organized. I'd like to be able to maintain a reasonable semblance of order on an ongoing basis.
My lack of organization has been a complaint of H's, so I'm working hard to change that situation, especially before he moves out so that he can see me in action.
That's the evening plan for tonight as well - go home, relax, do a bunch of cleaning and then watch a movie or go out for ice cream as my reward for a job well done!
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Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09