They will do whatever it takes to justify their actions...and that does include built up anger. One of things that got me for a loop was my wife bringing home angry from her other relationship and letting it go here. It took a long time for me to realize what it was, but it is there. Another odd thing with her anger was that as I accomplished 180's, especially with my children, she would become very resentful. So with the knowledge from the board I built up an internal wall to help in reacting to these actions.
You are continuing to do awesome and keep up the good work. You can control your PMA roller coaster, but try not to let her roller coaster affect you.
