It is wonderful to have an expert on Greek on the thread! I tried going to bed earlier last night, so i'm sorry I missed you when you wrote this.
This love stuff is so tricky. K, you make a good point about the difficulty of getting out of real love once you are in. That is a whole other side of the puzzle. It does seem that the trick is to just find that new person who titillates with love, lust, cupid's arrow, whatever it is. That certainly seems to work for the WASs.