Soooo what do you think made him finally "get it"?? I'm wondering on behalf of LL (lostlove) whose H seems about as thick as they come.
She could probably use some insights on this right about now.
Shiny
shhhh....you I'm not really here...
h isn't all that thick...he just doesn't get the whold big pic...he does lot's and lots but sometimes doesn't realize how easy it would be to just do a few of the little things I ask for. Not sticking up for him...just expressing that h does try.
thank you though for thinking of me with your inquiry...I did much of the same "stuff" before h actually came home...only I was way darker.
this piecing "stuff" aint all that easy...we the supposed "workers" on the r allow ourselves lots of pitty and way too many pats on the back (not all undeserved) and don't always bother to give any credit to the returning spouse. funny thing ya know...lots and lots of talk on the bb about the 5ll's...my h happens to have his...always has...that is were the problem lies...I can go for a while hearing him in his language and get "bratty" when I'm not hearing him speak MINE.
