Thanks for your advice smartcookie, I'm so happy that you have taken an interest in my sitch... I've read a lot of your posts on other peoples threads and really value your viewpoint.
Originally Posted By: smartcookie
Observe what she's doing when she's in the house with you. Just make a mental observation, & then think to yourself "I sure appreciate her" the energy from those types of observations & thoughts will help her feel more comfortable around you. If you're putting off energy that says "holy [censored], she's leaving me" she'll want distance from that.
That is something I have to pay attention to and really try to internalize. I know I'm sending out vibes of a wounded child and not that of a strong man - I honestly don't feel like a strong man at all, but I have to at least try to. Act as-if, right?
Sometimes I come here and read some threads and feel optimistic about my sitch because I realize I'm not the only one fighting this battle, and other times I come on here and find out that another person I have been following has given up or been served with D papers and it just crushes me.
I have so much empathy for all of you LBS's and wish I could offer some words of encouragement or guidance on your threads, but I can't even seem to get my own self in order. Thanks to everyone who so kindly help those of us who are fighting so hard, yet are consistently getting beaten down.
