H: Called me a few times today. He was somewhat frustrated and iritated today because our son had his car ins. cancelled for none payment, so H had to go make good on the bill for him and get him reinsured. H was ticked because son didn't tell him he needed the money which would have saved a lot of grief. But despite his angst over son, he got his "attitude" together and settled down pretty quickly.
He called me at work this afternoon to tell me what his plans were for tonight. Has some running around to do and a MC part to pick up so he could work on the bike to get it ready for the weekend.
He said he'd call tonight when he was finished working on the bike.
H's NEGATIVES: ZERO
MY POSITIVES: I didn't "sound" bitchy or whiny that he was not going to see me at all tonight.
I was kewl about the things he'd planned to do tonight and kept the conversation light and uncomplicated, like I would if any friend called to tell me their plans. So for me, that was a real positive cause usually I let that 'little disappointed' tone come into my speech. But NOT this time.
I'm feeling content to let him go do whatever he had planned without being suspicious, jealous of his time, or resentful that he's doing something without me.
Since H will be tied up tonight, I'm going out with some co-workers for a cocktail or two. Should be fun.
I didn't "sound" bitchy or whiny that he was not going to see me at all tonight.
