Well, this weekend we have a soccer tournament out of town. (S11 and S9 play in it.) So, D17 is staying with a friend, and my H and I are taking the boys.
I'll leave tonight (probably) after Fri night activities and drive the boys there, as one of them has a very early game. H gets home late on Fri nights, so he'll meet us there tomorrow.
H stays home an extra night this weekend. Yea!
Update more later...
Sam... Hobbies? Well, I work from home, and love it, so that is something I truly enjoy. And, I help with the kids school (dinner auction now), as they all go to a Lutheran school. LOVE it, as many of my great friends do the same. Last night our committee had to do a "tasting" of the signature drink for the event. That was fun! And, when it's not frozen here, I walk with girlfriends in the neighborhood. Love that! So, I guess I do do enough for myself.
I'm just having a hard time trying to think of things to do different in our M/R to help this situation. It is simply not acceptable the way it is. I mean, I LOVE that we get along really well, but HATE that that's all it is right now. It's heartbreaking. Almost to the point of some kind of emotional psychosis. I feel like I could crack.
Last edited by mindblank; 02/27/0903:40 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
