Regrets, those feelings of the world being torn out from under you are very normal. I still ask, Why Me? I was almost cocky about how good my relationship was, never thought for a moment that this would ever happen to H and I. I have a friend that said, you guys were like peas and carrots. You never saw the one with out the other. So Regrets, you are NOT ALONE, in this. It does happen to other people. You will make it and it is not selfish to feel that way, it is just how you feel.
