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Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! tpaschal #1723534 02/24/09 07:09 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Hi tpaschal, You are right, dating should happen at a certain pace...and it is exactly that which I plan to do...This was an 'accident' waiting to happen...I wanted it..I needed it, as for the guy...well, it's sad in a way, but he is very shy, works so much that hardly has a social life, and that which he has, he spends mostly helping out his sister at the bakery and taking care of her kids and his mom...He was even too shy towards me. I think that is what turned me off in a way, I want a man who stands tall and knows what he wants...this guy was too soft, too uncertain, too shy. He was sweet enough to send me a TM saying that he was on his way to the airport this morning for his trip to Asia, and that he would miss me and wished me the very best. Oh well... I spent the day with the kids and my sister and her kids, it was great, spending it together...we had so much fun. Tomorrow my MIL is coming over to go shopping with the girls, I hope we will have a good time in Town. I've been enjoying life on a different level since this whole 'one night stand' happened. It was unsafe and foolish, but it has done me a world of good too. Now, like with everything, we take what we can learn from it, benefit from the rest and forget the bad! thanks for popping in ! $\:\)$ Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Cinderellaman #1723590 02/24/09 08:19 PM
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kissak Member K Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 3,525 USA	Hey Cinders, you seem to be doing pretty good today. Take Care!! Kissak "What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Cinderellaman #1724428 02/25/09 10:10 PM
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Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Cinders, You seem to be doing fine again. Have a nice rest of the week. xxx

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Truelove #1724430 02/25/09 10:13 PM
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OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Thanks True ! you too, I so love to read your posts on my thread and yours !!! Enjoy the plays !! Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Cinderellaman #1724930 02/26/09 08:30 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	Hey Cinders, Just saying hello ((((hugs)))) There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! brandnewday #1724981 02/26/09 09:30 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Hi BND !!!!! I've missed you, hope all is well with you, still keep up with your thread.... I'm doing good by the way. Life is full of surprises ! $\:\)$ Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Cinderellaman #1725010 02/26/09 10:27 PM
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Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Cinders, I also enjoy reading your posts, either on your thread or on mine. Just one question: I thought you met your handyman beforehand. Has he not done some work in your house before? I am asking because you wrote on my thread that he was also different from what you imagined. Have a nice day tomorrow. xxx

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Truelove #1725279 02/27/09 02:48 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Yes, I did meet him beforehand...and of course we texted for a little while...his texts seemed like the type of guy I'd go for, but then in retrospect, I think that wasn't really it either... Anyway, I guess the 'idea' of the guy was better than the 'actual' guy ! HAHAHAHA ! Have a great weekend !! xxx Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! Cinderellaman #1725288 02/27/09 03:01 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 3,525 USA K kissak Member
kissak Member K Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 3,525 USA	Originally Posted By: Cinderellaman Anyway, I guess the 'idea' of the guy was better than the 'actual' guy ! HAHAHAHA ! Seems so true! lol Kissak "What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10

Re: HORRID ! Help ! Forgive me Lord ! kissak #1725331 02/27/09 04:17 PM
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whitelight Member W Joined: Jun 2005 Posts: 2,246	Are their two guys? Is this a different guy than did your shelves? Well, I'm proud of you for trying something new, even if it didn't turn out. It took a lot of courage to try something new and that is awesome!

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