The sad fact is that we're all abused.. AND abusers when a relationship takes a turn for the worst.
The only control we have is whether or not we're a victim.
Being a victim means pointing the finger, blaming the other, feeling that we're helpless.
Getting healthy means taking responsibility for our actions, letting go and doing work to be the best we can be. We focus on ourselves to be the best person possible.
Get healthy and the rest follows. Stay stuck and we're walking in muck.
*hugs*
Your sometimes muck walking, sometimes clean hopping buddy.
