Sun it wasn't a "quick" turn around really. We've been floundering our way through attempts at reconciliation for 11 months. The first 4 months were a joke...I was trying to reconcile and he was still deep in MLC and making a fool of me behind my back.

The REAL attempt only began about 3 months ago but it didn't "heat up" (so to speak) until I got fed up and went off on him about a week and a half ago. I think that night he realized I was just about done, and something I said, or how I said it or the way I looked when I said it...must have set something off in him to make him realize he was no longer going to get dragged along behind me in this R, he either had to put up or shut up...guess he decided to "put up". I have seen more of the man I married in the past week or so than I've seen in 3 yrs.

We're still not about to cohabitate just yet...but if things keep going along as well as they are now, I expect by Christmas he'll be ready to come home and I'll be ready to let him.
And THANKS for the hugs...back atcha!
T2