I'm dying to tell him he's wrong and that he has done stuff that contributed but I'll zip it. It;s very hard not to try make him see from my point of view but I know how much worse that will make it. just wish he would think of the good stuff and support he always said I gave him.

It's like he has no positive things about our years together, Maybe he doesn't.

thank you both for replies. I know you are taking a great deal of time and effort and I appreciate it very much.


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids