Now back home after 3 days away on a business trip. I am happy to be home, but it is amazing how much more detached I felt when I was away. I slept a lot better alone in a hotel bed. Now back home, I am immediately focused again on my W.
I finished "Codependent No More" yesterday. I can tell that while I am not codependent in the full way it is described, I definitely have a good bit of it. Some of it built up over the past few years when I started depending more and more on my W for my happiness and was at the same time feeling her pulling away. The rest of it came in a flash with the EA and the bomb.
It is hard to get rid of, but just have to focus on myself - so off to the gym I go.
Last edited by Thinker; 02/27/0911:56 AM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
