Hi V, Thanks for the reminders...and the start of a good list. I know that I have to keep expanding that list - and I shall - since I am certain that more positives will follow as I continue to rebuild my life. I also realize that I do have to do a better job of being kind to myself - I sometimes forget that what we go through that brings us to this site is extremely painful - and even harmful to us at times - and I should forgive myself for not having showed so many of the signs of having gone through a traumatic, sad experience...I'm getting there...I think getting out of this house this weekend will make it much easier for me to continue the healing process - and not just the grieving...
