well so much for going dark

received a middle of the night text from H saying that it is terrible when I don't respond to him

doesn't he realize that when the D is final we won't be texting back and forth

I want a husband, not some pen pal

but of course i sent a quick text back apologizing

his response "it is what it is"

Too bad I don't know what "it" is

I could use any tips on going dark or just tips in general

Me:32
H:33
No Kids
M 10.5 years
T 12 years
Separated 11/08