Today was a rough one as I had yet another person tell me that she was just "done" and that this divorce is inevitable. The person also told me that my wife was talking to her about returning the rings to knock down that debt.
Every day just gets bleaker.
Still, I held up and kept at it.
When my wife came home she was very short and snippy with me. I asked her what was wrong and she said "nothing." After some more of her storming around and sighing and I asked her again and she said "Nothing's wrong." So I asked her why she was acting that way and she said "I'm cleaning."
I left for my class and when I called from break to say goodnight to the kids she was extremely short and snippy then too. On my way home she asked me if I could pick something up and I said that I could and before I could go on she said "bye" and hung up. When I got home I gave her what I picked up and she said "Just set it there, I'll get it." and went upstairs. Even at our worst she'd say hello to me. Something seems to be going on but I have no idea what. I'm not going to crowd her or ask her again, I'm just going to let it go. If she's mad about something I'm sure I'll hear about it.
Tomorrow is my birthday and my parents had invited us over. I asked her this morning and she declined. She said she was uncomfortable going to my parents house now, but said I could take the kids. I understand why she would be uncomfortable, however, she is going to have to have some communication with them eventually. My parents are obviously upset with the situation, but they care about her very much. My mother is extremely upset, not just for me, but because she loves her. Remember, we've been very close on one level or another for over half of out lives. This is taking its toll on everyone.
