If you want to show up. Then do it with the attitude of who cares. After all, remember that he is not innocent in this. So if anyone looks at you funny, just keep reminding yourself that he played his part to.

Mistakes are usually made on both sides. Its not usually one sided. Anyone who thinks it is is full of crap.

I can't say that personally I think that anything I did justified what my W did. But at the same time, I am not her, and I know I made alot of bad mistakes and therefore I do not hold it against her what she did. What I do hold against her is her not being willing to wash both of our mistakes and try and work things out. But thats just me.

But I don't think anyone should be judging you. Wasn't it Jesus that said let the person who has not committed a sin throw the first stone?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...