Thanks BND you are a very wise woman. I appreciate your insight.

H called today. Everytime he called I was in a meeting and couldn't answer. He text me and said he was sorry about yesterday. He said he was depressed and couldn't handle anything yesterday. I text back sorry and thanks.

Later I was able to call him. He was in a bad mood. He said that he had no appetite didn't feel like eating. I said ok then don't eat h. He then said well how is that going to help me. I said well if you don't feel like eating then you shouldn't. He then said he was leaving as soon as I got home. I said ok h.

I got off the phone as quickly as I could, since I knew it wasn't going good. Then about an hour later he calls and says what are you making for dinner? I said what would you like h. He said could you make salmon. I said sure h. Hmmmmm I thought he wasn't hungry.

Well when I got home I fixed a nice salmon dinner and h stayed for dinner. He was in a little better mood. He helped clean up the kitchen. When he left he said see you on Saturday. I just said ok h, thanks for your help.

The evening went fine. Earlier in the day I didn't even want to speak to h. I am still a little grouchy myself, but starting to feel a little better.

I just want this all to end.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"