I went to C today, she thinks I am doing things right. She agreed that it would have been better to tell the kids together, but that my plan to let that lie unless things that that get to be a habit makes sense. She thinks that the fact that despite everything else, the fact that we have been good parents is going to help them adjust. I'd say that their immediate reaction seems to support that.
W told her parents today, she said that they said that they hoped that it would not change my relationship with them. Obviously, it does, but I agree with the sentiment. I will make sure that I have them over here regularly when I have the kids. She said that they were not surprised. They were a bit saddened that their kids are now three for three in the D department. We made it a lot longer than the other two, if that counts for anything!
I need to get packed to get the kids up to Flagstaff. We will be leaving early in the morning, so that they will be ready to ski just after noon.
