{{{Kassie}}} Sounds like you are doing well to know what to hold on to and what to not pay attention to. It's a step by step, sometimes minute by minute process at times. I hate how something seems to have a repeat pattern to make these WAS's even more sure that "this is against them" or "they do this" to keep them away from things that can be helpful..I'm glad your hub called to talk to you about it rather than just tossing in the towel automatically..that sounds like a positive step and the fact that HE realizes he quits things like that, also sounds good as far as his growth goes!
Hugs to you and hope your spirits lift..you and I may have to not wait on the "boys" to get back to the thread and just start dancing around by ourselves to some loud dance music
Tawnya
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