My goal here is to make you think. Because most likely.. in the situation you find yourself in.. you will think in a very narrow "scope". I want you to broaden that "scope". I am a busy man. And I do the best I can. It may take me a while.. but I will respond when I can. In the meantime.. look at the other thoughts that are coming in.
"What I see is that any niceness he shows towards me is him trying to get his way with the D. An attempt to woo me into not fighting and hiring an attorney."
This is a possibility. Best defense would be to hire an A. If you feel like you are being run over.. you might be. The other side is he wants you to lead.. and hire the A.. so he can say it was all your fault.
"When you ask "Read that again. What are you saying?"
"I don't do well with him face to face and he knows that. I break down and if I don't cry I get tongue tied."
In simple terms.. this is where you change things. To be more clear.. he is on top of his game while he has you "here". I don't know that there would be anything wrong.. with you knocking him off his game. As long as it was not "over the top".
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
