Dear ECJ, Please first let me know what your goal and/or hope is for this R. How you answer that will tell you what to say or not say at this point. And, if there is even a small crack in the door open for your M, do all you can to do no harm to it.
I am sure people are rightfully confused, but that does not mean they automatically deserve an explanation. I am sure it would feel good to offer one, but what deserves priority is your focus on your goal for this R. Once you define that, then behave and speak in ways that offer the best chance for those goals to happen.
Does that help?
Laurie, Divorce Busting Coach Contact The Divorce Busting Center at 303-444-7004 or 800-664-2435 if you would like to schedule a telephone consultation with a DB Coach - or email virginia@divorcebusting.com for info.
