You are right. I have felt the life being sucked out of me for the past 2 years---and I have to make the sucking stop!!!! That's why I'm back here. That's why I contacted the DB coaches----to get help with me. I don't know if my H will ever come out of it----for his sake, and our kids's sake, I hope he does and I hope he hasn't screwed up so much that there is only damage in the end............I love him----but I love my kids----and THEY love me!!! They will be first, and in order for that to happen, I have to be the best ME I can be!!! I think I'll go get on the treadmill..................


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12