Good! You did someting fun just for YOU! That's great! How about some hobbies? Anything you have given up on over the years, that you used to enjoy? I have gotten back into working on the house, photography, all kinds of stuff I just didn't seem to have time for anymore.
I know how you feel with regard to the intimacy. I miss that also. I guess in a sense it's a little easier when you're separated, because I don't have my W so close to me all the time. But I do miss that very much and every time I see her I feel incredibly attracted to her... For us, it has been just over a year now, since we last ML.
Keep going! Someone told me once that it is hard to resist unconditional love. Well, that's what you are giving your H, and that is what I am giving my W.
