I have beat this horse to death back and forth with Cinco already...and have finally come to understand that his wife has decided for herself that she is "old" or "middle aged" and that "middle aged women do not do x, y, or z" and that "middle aged people should not be making fools of themselves trying to look sexy or have sex".
So I finally got it sunk into my head that Mrs. Cinco simply refuses to look or feel sexy, in general.
And I doubt that is going to change unless or until Cinco makes an ultimatium and IF she chooses to get her sexy back FOR REAL AND FOREVER this time....
On the other hand, I know she is perfectly capable of doing so, she just needs to change her mind about the "old" thing. Until she does, I don't think Cinco buying her something cute to wear would make one bit of difference (exception being the birthday thing).
