Thanks for checking in on me. My H is not in the same country as yours just in the same area.
Last time when H mentioned that he finds it hard to forgive me for taking my share of the property sale I answered with "I am sorry you feel this way about me." Today I received his answer to my e-mail of the other day and at the end H put: "On the question of the property, you have somewhere to live, ever thought that I might need a home too?"
I did not ask him any question about the property! H seems to want to blame ME that he sold his home and with a loss on top of it. I have the feeling he is getting worse and even crazier, and today I really gave up hope of him ever coming back. He is still so angry about me taking my share of the property proceeds and it has almost been a year since he found out that he has to give me my share. If he has not forgiven me by now he never will.
I got really annoyed at the above. He is pushing my buttons again and I cannot cope with it very well. He wants me to feel guilty and he is succeeding. I went out for some retail therapy but had to think of H's e-mail all the time.
I thought of replying "Please stop blaming me for YOUR decisions". What do you think? Or should I just ignore it and go dark again? I still need an answer from H re a business matter but afterwards there will be no reason to contact him unless it has to do with the D.
