Hi again. Just a quick note to let you know I'm thinking about you. I hope you will be thinking about the boundaries you are going to set for your M. By that, I mean, what can you live with and what will you absolutely not stand to allow. I think it may do your H some good to have time to cool his heels before you try to talk to him again. If he has another woman, then he will not act any differently. He may be okay for a day or two, but he won't be able to hang with the act before losing his cool once more. I think he is covering up something if he is not going into a MLC. If he is entering MLC, then it will be a long spell (like 3-5 years for some). You may want to visit over in the MLC section to determine if you think any of it sounds familiar. I don't know if he is. As I said, he seems young to me, but you never know these days. I would hold off talking about the R as long as you can and give yourself time to think about what you are ready to deal with and what you won't take.
Talk later, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
