Wow just noticed today she is now separating our laundry. So i guess I doing my own laundry now. I am trying here. Still feeling better. Actually planning things with out her and taking over my life. Its hard.
I would have done that myself, another 180, separate her stuff from yours and just accept that it's being done separately and i'll tell you why that would work... you noticed it because she did it to you when normally the laundry was done together.
The master bedroom thing wasn't a good move on your part.
Take it back, change your mind, don't be the nice guy, show that your needs & wants are just as important (actually more important).
And if she doesn't like it, too bad, since when do you care what she likes? She doesn't care what you like - you're getting separated and possibly divorced - do you like that? Does she care?
