You are doing a great job, and you are holding it together well! I remember when I was going through the worst of my sit, I though I can't do this, how will i cope, and the funny thing I was! Its amazing what we can do when we have to!! I remember when we first were married, we had some really good fights, I remember H carrying his clothes out, as we had both yelled it was over! I to this day believe it was because we had gotten married, we had lived together for a year and it was good, but the minute you "have to" stay together it really changes the dynamic for a while! You think OMG what have i done, but then it levels out. So many its him just dealing with this rather then a MLC. either way its not right.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!