In the beginning I believe love is a feeling, hence, "love at first sight". Although, it was not love at first sight with my H. Matter of fact I didn't particularly care for him when I first met him. It took me a couple of years before I would even give him the time of day! Wow, things change!
After you have been with someone for a while you realize that the other isn't perfect like you initially believed. That is when I believe love becomes a decision as well as a feeling. I would think that most couples fall out of love at one time or the other, but "decide" to work hard to keep that love. Marriage is hard you have to work at it. Some just work harder than others.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
