Man, I read that whole thread and some of your posts sound like I could have written them from my own mind.
I have gained so much insight from being here, and from the books I have read so far. I know what needs to be done. Knowing and doing are completely different however, and I have always been better at knowing how to do something than actually going out and doing it.
Time to regroup and make a plan I think. As I open my W up, she is ready for more aggressive romance. There is no longer resistance to my pursuit.
Oh and BTW, things are certainly changing in my R. My W is becoming much more sexually available to me. Last night I woke her at 2:00am. She kept saying "look how late it is" "I need sleep" "I have to get up in a few hours", but it was like she was trying to convince herself since she really got into it. I told her, "this is what married couples do, they wake each other up in the middle of the night and ML". Unlike previous night sessions, I did not apologize, I simply took her, and tucked her in when I was done.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
