I am sorry that it feels like things are falling apart, but honestly things are not as bad as it seems.
When a Man loses his job it is HUGE!! A Man finds his self worth in his career, and his ability to support his family.
Have you thought about what is going through his head right now? Have you thought about how much stress he is under with you and him both out of work?
Even if he were not in MLC, this would be a very stressful situation. My Husband has lost his job several times, and it was even worse when he lost his job during his MLC.
Please try to be patient while he is trying to find his way home, it may seem as though this will never end, but it will.
Each negative action you give him will give you a negative reaction from him.
He needs to find you to be a safe person, he needs to be able to trust you and to be his friend.
Bite your tongue, vent here on the board, go for a run, but do not share your feelings with him right now, this is not the right time.
Try to remember, you are looking for logic in an illogical situation, you may as well bang your head against a wall.
((((((((((hugs))))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
