The next tip was to find a way to shock him. A new haircut, color, tattoo????? Well, I've done the hair thing, and might try something new when I go in for a haircut next week. The tattoo??? Don't know if I'm ready for that. I would welcome other ideas that might be considered a way to get his attention, though.............
The very best way to shock your Husband is to do nothing.
No calls, texts, emails, absolutely nothing.
You are not GAL to win him back or to even make him curious,or to shock him, you are doing it for yourself.
Making yourself look good, makes you feel good.
Working on your own issues, becoming a better person for you.
The focus has to be on you, not him.
I don't want to be discouraging, but none of us know the final outcome of our Marriages, and sometimes we need to save ourselves first, and if the Marriage can be saved too, then that is a bonus.
It really does get easier as time goes by. Once you can truly detach from the situation you will find that your Husband's antics will not bother you as much.
((((((((((hugs)))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
