Hi Sara, I think even for waywards when they set themselves up for these A, there is a moment in time when they have to act and make a choice.

How many times do people flirt but never cross that line. You could say you would be swept away with love but it is that finite line that do you have to make that choice and allow yourself to get swept away and "fall in love". Once that happens then it is hard to seperate your choice from your feelings. eg. Romeo and Juliet -- and look what happened to them!

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09