HELPPP!!!!HURRY!!!

I just got a text from H asking if I wanted to ride with him on Saturday for my daughter's engagement....I was floored...I didn't even know he was invited....

I texted him back and said I didn't know he was going? He said he just decided, that D23's boyfriend told him about it and told him that D23 would want him there....WTF? I have a hard time believing that seeing how my D didn't even want to see him at Christmas....my stomach dropped, I started to cry...

I was planning on bringing a male friend with me and to be my euchre partner but now I can't...I don't want to make a situation awkward for my kids....my D16 wants me to tell H not to go but I can't do that...it's not about us, it's D23's day...

I texted male friend and told him he couldn't go now and I feel terrible...I have not heard back from him....why when I'm finally turning a corner does H always pop up...he hasn't talked to me for a week...

My D16 told me that she texted H a month ago and told him what she thought and he never responded to her....now that made me mad...how immature...

Anyway,,,advice please..


Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity