Hey, girl! It's me, Arwen! I can't remember the last time I have been on this site (years?), but today I just had a strong feeling that I should check in and see if any "oldies" were still here from when I used to post so long ago. Naturally, I had to look YOU up first! I read your last two threads just to catch up.
I am so sorry to hear about what's going on with you. I have said a prayer for you already, and will continue to do so. You were there for me when I was so far down I was looking up. You will never know how much you helped me stay sane....or as sane as I'm ever gonna get!
Although I have been separated from my H for five years now, we are still not divorced and he is still with OW. I have grown alot, but am still dealing wih anger issues and a loss of direction. This has been detrimental to my finances, especially. However, I have learned alot while traveling down the MLC road, and thought that maybe,somehow, I could help someone else find the courage to face another day. I'm thinking about starting a new thread and replying to other's posts. I'm not a perfect DB'er and I still have issues, but perhaps I could help make someone else's day a little better.
How is school going? When will you graduate? Going back to school is hard on us old farts! I also went back to university and earned a B.S. in management last December, but haven't done much with it yet. I'm still dealing with my congenital procrastination syndrome! I know I found it very difficult to balance work, school and home life, but I did it! I have to admit I'm a little proud of myself. Many deadlines in school so I couldn't procrastinate, so I wonder why I'm doing it in my personal life? A work in progress, I guess.
Keep up your courage. You are one very strong,awesome lady. I'm so glad your family, especially your kids, are being so supportive. I would imagine your H is scared to death of things he has no control over. Alot of men have difficulty in showing emotional support, and I hope your H steps up to the plate. Keep us posted. I'll be thinking and praying for you. I will be checking the boards to keep up on your sitch. Thank you for all your wonderful support in the past, my friend! You have many friends here, and we all want only the best for you.
Gold Digger: Like a hooker,only smarter!
It's a great day to be alive;I know the suns still shinin' when I close my eyes........Travis
