Question for others: How many of you believe your semi-WAS was too weak to be a complete WAS and instead, wanted the LBS to actually make the break?
Three close friends (none of whom know each other) seem to think that was the case with my H. They believe because he got a lot of pressure from family and friends to try to work it out with me, so he semi came back under the pretense of "working on things." But there was no connection between us whatsoever, and every day that went by saw us a little further apart (and of course OW is in there somewhere). It got to the point at the end there, if I tried to give him a hug, he would stiffen up. He was THAT uncomfortable around me. But perhaps he didn't want to be the "bad guy" and end things. He often made references about always being made out to be the "bad guy."
Ultimately, I was the one who ended it, but it certainly wasn't what I wanted. He gave me no choice. I wonder if that is what he was waiting for. He certainly seems a lot happier now. That hurts too.
