Thanks for the input. H has always looked at porn...never been an issue for me. Never worried about it at all and still don't care if he looks at porn. I just feel sad that he registered us for a site and didn't share with me that it was a fantasy or?????
I have met the OW and she seemed quite freaked out when he would talk about anything remotely sexual. He is a very sexual person and I don't believe that she is, but again I am probably being naive and look for signs in everything.
I don't trust anything anymore and that is the hardest thing to try to work on...to even trust your own instincts.
